Husband doesn't do night feeds — feeling resentful

I had this exact conversation (argument). What worked: we made a schedule. He does 11pm-2am, I do 2am onwards. Non-negotiable. Having it in writing somehow made it easier.

Resentment in the first year is real and it is valid. You are not wrong to feel it. I'd strongly suggest couples therapy — not because anything is broken but because this stage is genuinely hard.