The First Week Home
The most disorienting, beautiful, exhausting week of your life. Here is exactly what to expect - Hour by hour, day by day - So nothing catches you off guard.
Day-by-Day: What's Normal
- Baby is assessed with APGAR score at 1 and 5 minutes after birth
- BCG and first Hepatitis B vaccine given in hospital
- Hearing screening performed
- Skin-to-skin contact strongly encouraged - Regulates baby's temperature, heart rate, and breathing
- Colostrum only - Breast milk hasn't come in yet; this is normal
- Baby sleeps 16–18 hours total; wakes to feed every 1–3 hours
- Most babies lose 7–10% of birth weight - Completely normal due to fluid loss and meconium
- Meconium stools (black, tarry) transition to yellow-green by day 3–4
- Physiological jaundice typically appears day 2–3 - Skin and whites of eyes appear yellow
- Polyclinic will arrange first visit; some hospitals send a nurse for a home visit
- Breast milk supply starts building - Engorgement common at days 3–5
- Mature breast milk 'comes in' - Breasts become fuller, sometimes uncomfortably so
- Baby feeding frequency may increase as they adjust to larger milk volumes
- Wet nappies increase: aim for 6+ per 24 hours by day 5
- Jaundice typically peaks around day 3–5 and begins to resolve by day 7–10
- Baby starts to have brief alert periods between sleeps - This is your interaction window
- Umbilical cord begins to dry and darken
- Baby should have regained birth weight by day 10–14
- Feeding becoming slightly more rhythmic - Though still demand-led
- Umbilical cord typically falls off within 1–3 weeks
- First social smile may appear as early as 6 weeks - But not yet
- Your own sleep debt is real; accept all help offered
- Polyclinic 1-month check approaching - Note any questions
Bringing Baby Home
🌡️ Room Setup
- Set air-conditioning to 24–26°C - Singapore's humidity can cause overheating even indoors
- Position cot away from direct aircon airflow - Avoid chilling baby's face
- Firm flat mattress in cot or crib - No pillow, no bumpers, no loose bedding
- Changing station near feeding spot minimises disruption at night
- Dim night light is fine; complete darkness is not required for newborns
🤝 Visitors & Helpers
- Limit visitors in week 1 - Newborn immune systems are naive; anyone sick should stay away
- Ask visitors to wash hands before holding baby
- If you have a confinement nanny, establish feeding preferences clearly from day 1
- Accept help with cooking, cleaning, and older siblings - Not baby holding
- Traditional confinement practices: discuss with your OB what is safe and what to avoid
Normal Newborn Weight Changes
| Period | Expected Change | Why | Action needed? |
|---|---|---|---|
| Days 1–4 | Lose 7–10% of birth weight | Fluid loss, meconium, feeding establishment | None - Completely normal |
| Loss >10% | More than 10% below birth weight | May indicate feeding problem | See paediatrician today |
| Days 4–7 | Weight stabilises | Feeding rhythm establishing | Monitor wet nappies |
| Days 7–10 | Weight begins recovering | Milk supply established | None if feeding well |
| By day 14 | Back to birth weight | Full milk supply, efficient feeding | Confirm at polyclinic |
| Month 1+ | +150–200g per week | Active growth phase | Track at 1-month visit |
Umbilical Cord Care
✓ What to do
- ✓Keep the stump dry - This is the most important rule
- ✓Fold the nappy down below the stump so it stays exposed to air
- ✓Clean once daily with a cotton bud dipped in cooled boiled water
- ✓Allow it to air-dry after cleaning
- ✓Give sponge baths only until the cord falls off
- ✓Expect it to fall off naturally between 1–3 weeks
✗ What to avoid
- ✗Do not pull or twist the stump - Even if it looks loose
- ✗Do not apply alcohol, antiseptic powder, or herbal paste (traditional practice)
- ✗Do not cover with a bandage or tape
- ✗Do not submerge in water for a bath
Singapore Newborn Screening
All babies born in Singapore hospitals undergo the Newborn Metabolic Screening (NBS) - A mandatory heel-prick blood test performed at 48 hours of age.
This screens for 25+ treatable conditions. Results are usually available within 2 weeks and sent to your polyclinic.
Conditions screened include:
- Phenylketonuria (PKU)
- Congenital hypothyroidism
- G6PD deficiency (very common in Singapore)
- Galactosaemia
- Congenital adrenal hyperplasia (CAH)
- Maple syrup urine disease (MSUD)
- Medium-chain acyl-CoA dehydrogenase deficiency (MCADD)
- 20+ other metabolic disorders
Other in-hospital screens:
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Hearing screening (AABR/OAE)
Performed before discharge. If a referral is given, it does not mean hearing loss - Many babies pass on the second test.
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Pulse oximetry
Screens for critical congenital heart disease. Painless oxygen sensor on hand and foot.
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Jaundice monitoring
Bilirubin checked via skin sensor or blood test if jaundice appears.
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Physical examination
Hips, eyes, heart, genitalia, palate checked before discharge.
Nappy Output: Your Best Feeding Feedback
| Day | Wet nappies | Stool colour & consistency |
|---|---|---|
| Day 1 | 1+ | Meconium: black, thick, sticky - Normal |
| Day 2 | 2+ | Meconium transitioning to dark green |
| Day 3 | 3+ | Transitional: green-brown to yellow-green |
| Day 4 | 4+ | Yellow-green; may start to look 'seedy' |
| Day 5+ | 6+ | Breastfed: bright yellow, loose, seedy. Formula: pale yellow, more formed |
Fewer than 6 wet nappies per 24 hours after day 5 is a reason to contact your polyclinic. Use the Diaper Calculator to estimate monthly diaper costs.
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